to avoid always and the alternative

Lets be honest about this you can wear what you want but show me a man in a bow tie and I'll show you a ----.That tie is getting you down so wear the alternative a cravat!!!!!
For men who do not want to wear ties, then you can opt for Cravats. These a good fashion accessories for fashionable men.I have always seen top fashion designers wearing these cravats and they look smart. You can wear a cravat with suit to work, you can also wear a cravat to a party. It all depends on your fashion style. You can also wear a cravat as an evening wear with a suit vest and jeans.
Beautiful Quality Silk Cravat from Van Buck. The silk is printed in the original mills in Macclesfield, England and manufactured at their factory in the East of England. Fully lined in Pure Cotton, Dry Clean Only.The ascot is a tie that only the brave and the confident wear. It is a symbol of style. Today, although the ascot appears rarely, when it does it makes a statement - and it seems to be popping up more and more. Is it possible the ascot is making a comeback?

The term 'ascot' means different things in different areas. In America it is synonymous with cravat, but in Europe an ascot is a wide pale gray cravat made of patterned silk and worn only with very formal morning wear, to weddings, or England's Royal Ascot races (it's namesake).

So, if you have just the right occasion, then go ahead and don an ascot, proudly. One thing needed to wear an ascot is confidence. Attitude is critical. You must come across as completely comfortable in thetie rack 20 pounds
 cravat or ascot, any instinct for fidgeting must be fought off. You have to convey that you are man 15.99 from  shrp dressed man , the best made are by van rack though as thety are non slip
enough to wear an ascot, without strutting like a peacock (and looking like an ass).

The best way to do this is to pretend it is a normal tie - neither show it off nor hide it. Do not try to draw attention to the ascot. If you are self-conscious about the ascot, then it's best not to wear one.below tom dick and harry cravats

Shown here is David Beckham who wears it extremely well.