lost in europe poem

• LOST IN EUROPE my new poem

   If we took a walk down the river , we would start at the source ,a spring then.
  
  This stream flows across the Common and kisses with laughter , a tributary , under the railway embankment.
  
  Across the wide flat lands there is a group of allotments ,
  
  the soil fertile from the Ice Age
  
  and more recent accumulations of love done and finished in the marshes.
  
  And
  
  I had one romantic dream
  
  and designed a perfect trip through Europe,
  
  a "story" I wish I could re-read, re-watch, and re-live over and over again
  
  backwards the rest of my life.
  
  A "story" to compensate her back for in return.
  
  Across all the forgotten places of Europe I took her with me,
  
  by cottages with old people and by streams where life just went on in silence,
  
  the old peoples love long extinquished by memory but not by nearness
  
  and one day they were you and me

   
  old people like this as you passsed on trains in places you would never see again , they will be

   

   you and me, and love will be extinquished
  
  but nearness will continue
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psychological identity loss

The loss of the psychological identity 

Brad is a very happy and successful person. He earns a big salary, His wife loves him and he has accomplished most of what he wanted to achieve in life. Everything in Brad’s life was perfect and this was reflected in the way he walks,talks and in his confident attitude.
One day while he was happily driving back his way to home he received a phone call from his wife who told him “Brad, I don't want you in my life anymore. I know that this is a surprise for you but it's my final decision.”
Brad's wife hung up and he suddenly felt worthless. He felt that all of his confidence and happiness had been lost. Ever since that day Brad became an unhappy, desperate and a bad-tempered person.
What happened to Brad? What happened to his confident and strong character?
What happened is that his wife's call made him lose his psychological identity.

What is a psychological identity

Identity or psychological identity is your capacity for self-reflection and awareness. People usually acquire their identities through the tasks they do and the objects they identify themselves with. For example, if you asked someone “who are you?” and he replied saying “I am the restaurant’s chef“, then this person identities himself with his job and thinks of himself as the chef instead of Robin or Tom.
Here are some examples of people identifying with other objects or other people in life:

• Identity with a person: Children who try to imitate their parents and dress like them are doing so because they are attempting to identify with their parents.
• Identifying with a job: A person who proudly speaks of his profession and answers the question of “Who are you?” with his job’s title is a person who is identifying himself with his job.
• Identifying with an object: A person who proudly drives his big car may be identifying with his car. He is showing off just to show that he is rich but because he thinks of himself as the “Expensive Car Owner”. This is usually the same person whom you will find him walking with his head down when he suffers from financial crisis that forces him to replace his car with a smaller one. This happens because he identified himself with his car and so when the car was gone he found himself with no psychological identity. He used to be the "Expensive Car Owner", now he is nothing. 

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GOOD LOOKS at Marks and sparks

you always have to wonder at who buys most of the stuff at Marks and spencers, most of it sucks , you have to wonder at who does the web site that sucks too but you could look well good with a few (the very few) of the gems that they actually do sell.Above a great suit that ABSOLUTELY did not need that waistcoat, OVERPOWERED!!!!!!Nicola Copping is the editor of all this ha ha ha ha

for instance this jacket DOES not go with the khaki trousers, the only thing it would go with is something like the off white chinos or light lilac ones Ive shown here that marks  do but ........................who actually puts the looks together? Total rubbish ideas as regards web site looks.

brown bag and penguin

british homes stores mens

One wonders who the menswear of BHS is destined for , they have a name that was illustrious in the past but rather forgotten today. Theres not much you would want if you consider yourself a bit fashionable, one gets the impression that BHS is aimed towards pensioners who want someghing just a little bit extra ,. theres not much extra to be honest. The hat is something a lot of stores or shops dont carry at the price of 10 pounds

the best from asda v pretty green

jacket 20 notes, below baseball jacket 15 notes

eyes 5 notes

chinos 12 notes

the desert boots are around 17 pounds and polos 8 pounds, evertything is cheap unlike pretty green below, the polos are not that much better than asda and are 60 to 70 pounds , desert boots about 70 and jeans the same . I own some of theuir polos and nothing impresses me about them so go asda with the stuff above .

a look for spring

 peter wort sky blue t.shirt team with white jeans

 mod style knitted white polo team with navy blue slim line trousers and loafers

 peter worth white suit , wear the sky blue polo underneath

marks and spencer mod shirt team with white peter worth suit, get ridda the tie